How to Message a Girl You Like

You just sent a text to a girl you like. A minute passes and she hasn’t responded; that’s okay, I’ll just wait a little longer. Then 30 minutes passes… then an hour. You aren’t getting a response. Should you text her again? Did you say something wrong? Is she busy? Situations like this happen all the time with girls; how you deal with them can determine if this girl will continue talking to you. That is why it is so important to know how to message a girl you like.

What you open up your text messages with is so important, because it can lead the whole conversation. Start with something fun, and you could be texting for hours. Start with something boring, and risk getting very delayed responses, or not even get texted back at all!

What I recommend doing is opening up with something “off the cuff”, as in something original. All the other guys are saying things like “hey” or “what’s up”, so don’t do that! Be different. If you can, add a little humor to it too to get her laughing. I’m gonna give you a great example of a text I use all the time to start conversations with girls:

Aliens are coming to take all the sexy people from earth. You’ll be fine, I just wanted to say my farewells

When she opens her phone she will be quite surprised. She’ll laugh to herself, smile, and feel positive emotions. And those positive emotions she’s feeling will end up being connected to you because you’re the one who made her feel good. This is a great start to messaging a girl you like.

The Art of The Text

Author Bio: Zac Miller

Author of The Art of The Text: The Ultimate Guide on Texting GirlsZac Miller is the author of The Art of The Text: The Ultimate Guide on Texting Girls. He got started writing books in 2012 with his first breakout book, The Ex Recovery Blueprint. Zac is a specialist when it comes to women and relationships. His interests include psychology, females, and poker. He is also a member of a pickup artist community in Charlotte, NC. If you would like to contact Zac, please go to the contact me page, where you can email him.

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